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		<title>cultural imperialism</title>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-weight:normal;" class="Apple-style-span"> The above is a program guide from http://5.mediacorptv.sg/wassup/progguide/index/.html , showing the programs screened on channel 5 on 11th march 2008 from 6 am to 4 p.m. As one would notice, most of the programs are American. With the exception of the morning news, all the shows are Western programs. It is undeniable that there is a <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">huge dominance of U.S media products</span> on Singapore television. Even on radio stations such as Class 95, most songs are from U.S. According to <span style="font-style:italic;" class="Apple-style-span">Varis (1984)</span>, it is clear that there is a <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">one-way traffic</span>. This means that while we are absorbing and learning the culture of Americans, they know nothing of us. In fact, many Americans don&#8217;t even know the existence of Singapore. U.S is a major exporter of media products, and many countries in the world have access to these products.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center;"> Many Singaporeans know the U.S culture more than our own. Ask them who the American politicians are, they&#8217;ll gamely list all of them. But ask them who is the Transport Minister of Singapore, and they&#8217;ll be at a loss. Ask the locals the history of Singapore, most are unsure, and some don&#8217;t even know. Yet, when you question them the American history, they can write a book about it.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">What are the consequences of this <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">cultural imperialism- </span>the unbalanced flow in international television market? I personally feel that <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">cultural imperialism</span> dilutes a community&#8217;s culture. In some cases, the community members <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">abandon their own culture</span> to join another. Some cultures would no longer be proud of their traditions and heritage, hiding them when they can. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Cultural imperialism</span> could also impact the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">global television culture. </span>A terrible consequence is that the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">global television culture</span> loses its <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">diversity</span> and <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">uniqueness</span>, and follow this tried-and-tested way of success. For example, Singapore produces English television comedy series, like Police and Thief and My Sassy Neighbor, to model after the success of U.S television series like Ugly Betty, and Heroes. It is indeed sad that the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">effects of cultural imperialism</span> is often unpleasant and leads to loss of cultural identity.</div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2008 22:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The African-American community(or otherwise known as the black community) in America is identified through its culture of Rap and R&#38;b music, break-dancing, slang and language, behavior and actions, dressing and clothing and a whole lot more. The black community in US have single-handedly revolutionized  Hip-hop. And I&#8217;m not just talking about the music, I&#8217;m talking about the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=xoxo9.wordpress.com&blog=2562590&post=13&subd=xoxo9&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="text-align:center;">The African-American community(or otherwise known as the black community) in America is identified through its <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">culture</span> of <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Rap</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">R&amp;b music</span>, <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">break-dancing</span>, <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">slang</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">language</span>, <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">behavior</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">actions</span>, <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">dressing</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">clothing</span> and a whole lot more. The black community in US have single-handedly revolutionized  <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Hip-hop. </span>And I&#8217;m not just talking about the music, I&#8217;m talking about the moves, the clothes, the language, the whole get-up. </p>
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<div style="text-align:center;">Does a black man know from birth that he was destined to rap and break dance? I suppose no. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Cultures are learned</span>. When a baby is born, the influence of the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">society</span>, his<span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span"> parents</span>, and his <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">friends</span> mould him into the person that he would be in the future. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Cultural norms</span> are only norms because we are so used to them that we often forget that they were novel to us once. Most black musicians on radio now sing the same genre of music, and behave in a similar manner. Also, musicians such as 50cent, Chris Brown, Flo Rida, T-Pain, all dress in the same manner. There is a perfectly legitimate explanation for this. Often, belonging to a <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">culture</span> (in this case, the black culture/ hip-hop culture) means <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style:italic;">acting according to group norms. </span>This is due to the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">security</span> it provides. Because <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">cultures are shared</span>, it is difficult to act as freely as we wish. When Eminem, a white rapper, first entered the rap music industry, he was heavily criticized for &#8220;posing like a black man&#8221;.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">There are many cultures in the world, and despite culture being exclusive to a community, it can be observed that there is more <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">intercultural</span> interactions more so than before. Take the example of US. The <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">hip-hop culture</span> is so extensive that even the white community is involved. In addition, the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">hip-hop culture</span> is also extended to Asia, where Japanese, Chinese and Koreans etc are involved. We live in a <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">global village, </span>where there are <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">intercultural encounters</span> everyday. There is so much<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;"> intercultural interaction</span> that there is an obvious presence of <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">co-cultures</span>. </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://xoxo9.wordpress.com/2008/02/25/yo-wat-up/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/bKmrO0OQ4RM/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">The above youtube video is a short scene from the movie, Step Up, showing Channing Tatum(the white man in the clip) dancing in a hip-hop style, with break-dancing moves. Also, you would notice that he speaks like a black man. In the movie, the white man lives in the ghetto and he grew up feeling that he belongs to the black community, following their culture. His <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">language style</span> is very much like the black hip-hop guys in the movie. Because he uses this <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">language</span>, and also their <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">slangs</span>, a person who is not familiar with the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">hip-hop culture</span> would not necessarily <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">understand</span> the things he says.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">Also, in the movie, Channing Tatum is supposedly the &#8220;bad&#8221; boy. Because he is a white man &#8220;acting&#8221; like a black man, he is <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">stereotyped</span> as a &#8220;poser&#8221;. In the movie, the school and its students despise him and have <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">prejudices</span> against him. It went to a point where they <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">discriminated</span> him. To them, the hip-hop culture produces criminals, &#8220;gangstas&#8221;, and delinquents. </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">This also highlights an important <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">barrier</span> to cultural understanding. <span style="font-style:italic;" class="Apple-style-span">Ethnocentrism is a belief that one&#8217;s culture is superior to all others and there is a tendency to judge all cultures by one&#8217;s own criteria.</span> In the movie, most of the white students can&#8217;t stand Channing Tatum because they think his culture is not as superior as theirs and that he doesn&#8217;t possess the talent and classical dance techniques to be qualified as a dancer. To them, he&#8217;s just some &#8220;punk&#8221;.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">However, having said all that, it is absolutely important to keep in mind that intercultural communication allows understanding of each others&#8217; cultures, and with greater understanding, there is greater tolerance to differences. In fact, knowing the similarities between cultures bond people and unite them.</div>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 18:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyday we meet people and interact with them, we don&#8217;t realize that we are having interpersonal communication with these them- our friends, parents, teachers etc. How does an interpersonal relationship come about? According to DeFleur et al (2005), there&#8217;re 3 processes: Engagement, Management, and Disengagement.

 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="text-align:center;">Everyday we meet people and interact with them, we don&#8217;t realize that we are having <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">interpersonal communication</span> with these them- our friends, parents, teachers etc. How does an <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">interpersonal relationship</span> come about? According to<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;"> DeFleur et al (2005), </span>there&#8217;re 3 processes: <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Engagement, Management, and Disengagement.</span></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Most people don&#8217;t realize that we subconsciously use a set of criteria to form <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationships</span>. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Physical appearance,</span> for one, is a big factor. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Similarity</span> to ourselves is also important when we form <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationships</span>. Though on the other hand, we sometimes form <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationships</span> because of <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">dissimilarities</span>. We have an inclination to form <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationships</span> with people who&#8217;re different from us.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Below is a clip from Monsters Inc. when Boo and Sully first makes contact. In the Monster world, children are thought to be contaminated and fatal.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">In this short clip, you see the start of a friendship between Sully(the monster) and Boo(the little girl).  As a Monster and a human child, they definitely have differences in <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">physical appearance</span>. Also, because of their vast incompatibilities, it seems almost impossible that they will become friends. Sully rejects Boo because she is <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">human</span> and <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">different</span>. Boo, on the other hand, wants to befriend Sully because he is <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">novel</span> to her. Boo especially likes him because he is unlike others (human beings she interacts with on a daily basis). She wants to <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">form a relationship</span> with him because of their <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">dissimilarities</span>. This is the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">engagement stage</span> where there is first contact. Also, one would notice that there is mainly <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-verbal communication</span> between the two as Boo is too young to communicate verbally. Since this movie is intended for children to watch, this is a useful technique for easy understanding.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"> Another stage would be the<span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span"> disengagement stage</span> where the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationship is dissolved.</span> The clip below, however, goes against that. This is a clip from Love Actually where Jamie goes to Portugal to propose to Aurelia. Before this, Jamie could not speak Portuguese and Aurelia couldn&#8217;t speak English, and they had many <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">conflicts</span> maintaining their <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">relationship</span>.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Instead of <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">dissolving their relationship</span>, the two forms a new one instead- one as husband and wife. Hence, the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Knapp Model of Relational Development</span> is more apt in this case. Jamie and Aurelia started with <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 1,</span> where there was <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">initiation </span>and proceeded to <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 2</span>, where there is <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">experimenting</span>. In <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 2</span>, they made small talk and Jamie disclosed <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">personal information</span> about himself- the contents of the book he is writing. However, they skipped <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 3,4,5 </span>as they had <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">problems maintaining their relationship</span>. They went straight to <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 9 and 10</span>, whereby Jamie returns to England and never meets Aurelia again. The story then takes a twist (which is the scene shown in the clip), where Jamie&#8217;s relationship with Aurelia jumps back to <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Stage 5,</span> where they bond through marriage. This is a perfect example of a <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-linear form of relational development</span>.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Through these examples, we can observe the many details in <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">interpersonal relationships</span> and the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">formation</span> and <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">maintenance</span> of them. </p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 05:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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There&#8217;re many types of advertisements. Some show us the practicality of the product, some lure us with celebrities, and others simply lure us with the idea of the &#8220;non-reality&#8221;. I&#8217;ll be elaborating on what I mean by the latter. Above you&#8217;ll see an advertisement by Motorola promoting their phone-  RAZR2. The advertisement toys with our mind. As [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=xoxo9.wordpress.com&blog=2562590&post=7&subd=xoxo9&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p align="center">There&#8217;re many types of advertisements. Some show us the practicality of the product, some lure us with celebrities, and others simply lure us with the idea of the &#8220;non-reality&#8221;. I&#8217;ll be elaborating on what I mean by the latter. Above you&#8217;ll see an advertisement by Motorola promoting their phone-  RAZR2. The advertisement toys with our mind. As learnt in my <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Communications</span> class, communication is based on <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">perception</span> rather on <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">reality</span>. I cannot agree more. Often, we overlook reality to convince ourselves of the intention of the message the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">sender</span> is conveying. For example, a person you don&#8217;t like tells you that your shirt is nice, and perhaps it really is, you&#8217;ll think that she&#8217;s just trying to be hypocritcal. We <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">perceive</span> the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">message</span> to be threatening rather than pleasant, maybe based on past experiences when she has repeatedly said things she doesn&#8217;t mean. Possibly, our conclusion comes from the fact that the message was accompanied by n<span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">onverbal communication</span>. We <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">selectively</span> observe the message that we want to hear and see.</p>
<p align="center">Moving back to the ad, I personally felt tempted to buy the phone after watching it because it was simply so cool. Several factors prompted me with that decision: First, the 2 main characters inside were sleek, stylish and good-looking.  They played with the fact that many people judge others by their appearances. Also, they were both wearing black, which is a &#8220;cool&#8221; color, in comparison with white. &#8220;Cool&#8221; colors are often used by the media to potray a certain image. For example, if they wanted to show that a woman is sexy, they would use colors like crimson red or dark purple. On the other hand, if they wanted to show a woman is kind and sweet, they would use colors such as pastel pink, light yellow etc. The ad manages to create a cool image of the phone by carefully choosing the clothes, hair and make-up of the leads. They fit comfortably into our <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">personal constructs</span> of whose cool and stylish. Second, the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">atmosphere of the environment</span> is selected very carefully. They took a very casual setting and made it desirably cool. The lighting is also dimmed on purpose. Cool= good-looking= nightlife= dark environments. That is how the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">media</span> usually potrays the cool image and creates the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">environmental stimuli</span>. However, this only works if <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">cultures</span> are the same. For very traditional Chinese families, black is a color only reserved for funerals. In fact, the Chinese <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">culture</span> does not approve of the color, black, because of its <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">association</span> with death. Hence, when looking at an ad like the Motorola ad, they would not <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">perceive</span> it as cool. Rather, they would associate the phone with death. Having said that, most of the time it works, because the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">media</span> of the world is mostly <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Westernized</span> by the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">American culture. </span></p>
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<p align="center">Thirdly, the ad has no <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">verbal dialogue</span>. And since <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-verbal communication</span> is <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">receiver-based</span>, it&#8217;s basically up to our <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">intepretation</span> of the ad. This is effective because it does not spell out everything for us and different people intepret differently. They effectively used <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">oculesics</span> to fill in the &#8220;missing dialogue&#8221;. We saw different <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">emotions</span> just by observing their eyes- anger, surprise etc. Motorola also used <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Proxemics</span> to change their relationship and situation. Using <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Edward Hall&#8217;s four zones of personal space</span>, the 2 characters toggled between social, casual and intimate distance. Within the intimate distance, they used <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Haptics </span>to show perceptions of liking and arousal of senses. They touched each other alot and were generally considered intimate.</p>
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<p align="center">Finally, you realized that whatever I said has nothing to do with the phone, RAZR2. But that doesn&#8217;t matter, because they managed to send their message across- RAZR2 is cool. It&#8217;s strange, because reality tells us that the phone has hardly any use in the ad, other than to cut their clothes, which we also know is impossible.  Yet, we willingly convince ourselves that the phone is useful and looks good after that. This ad successfully communicated with us, and consumers will feedback to it by buying the phone.</p>
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<p align="center">Here&#8217;s something to think about: Are all ads out to &#8220;trick&#8221; consumers by using the right advertising methods and techniques? Is it right for ads to advertise something that isn&#8217;t really what it is? Yet, advertising is all about this. </p>
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		<title>Talk to me without words</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 08:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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I&#8217;m a huge fan of Ellen Degeneres and this is one of the episodes of the &#8220;Ellen Degeneres Show&#8221; I obtained from Youtube, for her 50th birthday. Inside is a video dedicated to Ellen from a handful of celebrities. As Ellen is a comedian, please don&#8217;t expect it to be something that isn&#8217;t funny.  

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<p style="text-align:center;">I&#8217;m a huge fan of Ellen Degeneres and this is one of the episodes of the &#8220;Ellen Degeneres Show&#8221; I obtained from Youtube, for her 50th birthday. Inside is a video dedicated to Ellen from a handful of celebrities. As Ellen is a comedian, please don&#8217;t expect it to be something that isn&#8217;t funny.  </p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Who disagrees that a song can communicate?Hardly anyone. Most of us would even recount incidents when we&#8217;re extremely saddened by a song, and even close to tears. Songs can make us happy and they can make us sad. When put in movies, they enhance the effects of the scene. Our minds can&#8217;t seem to ignore the impact of a song. But can a song be overpowered by something else?</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">I&#8217;m sure everyone is familiar with the song, &#8220;I Will Survive&#8221;. And I&#8217;m sure everyone knows the intended message of the song. If you find yourself laughing at the video from the &#8220;Ellen Degeneres Show&#8221;, is there something wrong with you? </p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">No. Even though the song is supposed to somewhat motivate people, the intention of the song is overshadowed by the actions of the celebrities. Even though they&#8217;re not singing, their <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">actions literally speak louder than words</span>. We cannot always think that effective communication is by our voices. Simply watching the video would enable us to understand that <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">sometimes actions convey stronger messages than words/voices. </span>Taking a nostalgic look at the models of communication, we would realize that these actions are called <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">noise</span>. If the noise becomes increasingly &#8220;loud&#8221;, we are <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">distracted from the message. </span></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">This is also the basis of certain comedies. Jackie Chan is famous for his action-comedies. Sometimes the dialogue is not necessarily funny but the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">actions</span> are easily understood and generate laughter from the audiences. People from all ages and cultures interpret actions far better than words. The following is a clip from the advertisement for Visa, promoting the Beijing Olympics, by Jackie Chan.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Many people would have already seen this advertisement. Without us realizing, the advertisement managed to demonstrate  its intentions without a single use of dialogue. The music is also kept very simple. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Non-verbal communication</span> remains a very important part of communication. More often than not, <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-verbal communication</span> does not need to be accompanied by <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">verbal communication</span>. </p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">A very simple form of <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-verbal communication</span> we have daily is this:</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">We are on our way to work/school. We see someone we know far away. You catch the person&#8217;s eye and vice versa. You want to say &#8220;Hi&#8221; to him/her, but you can&#8217;t possibly shout. So, you wave and smile! By using the right <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">affect display</span>, you convey the message that you are very happy to see him/her. </p>
<p style="text-align:center;">The above example illustrates that <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">non-verbal communication</span> does not necessarily have to be complicated. It is inherently an extremely <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">flexible</span> sort of communication that we utilize not just every day, but every hour of our lives. </p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Here&#8217;s something to think about:  The deaf community uses sign language to talk with each other. Is this considered non-verbal communication? (Because they are really trying to talk to each other &#8220;verbally&#8221;) Also, will this &#8220;verbal communication&#8221; be complicated by non-verbal communication?</p>
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 This is a short clip from the Japanese cartoon Sailormoon that was shown many many years ago. Sailormoon is a cartoon from Japan which was subsequently dubbed in English and shown in several other countries. The clip I obtained was shown on New Zealand television. It is translated and dubbed in English. There are other [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=xoxo9.wordpress.com&blog=2562590&post=1&subd=xoxo9&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<div style="text-align:center;"> This is a short clip from the Japanese cartoon Sailormoon that was shown many many years ago. Sailormoon is a cartoon from Japan which was subsequently dubbed in English and shown in several other countries. The clip I obtained was shown on New Zealand television. It is translated and dubbed in English. There are other versions of this clip in Cantonese and Chinese.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">This is one of my favorite scenes from the cartoon because within the few short minutes, there&#8217;re many <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">climaxes</span>. In fact, people who don&#8217;t know what the cartoon is about would more or less infer the content from the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">gestures, body language and other uses of symbols in the cartoon. </span> The <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">expression</span>s from the characters provide us with some knowledge about what&#8217;s happening. Since communication does not necessarily have to be <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">verbal</span>, we would see that some important parts are put across by actions.In the beginning, one of the main characters, Tuxedo Mask, was lethally attacked and instead of using dialogue to convey the message that he&#8217;s in pain and dying, they show his hands shaking, and beads of perspiration dripping down from his temple.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">Hence, the audience would infer that he is at his last breath.The cartoon also cleverly uses hints to tell us what is going to happen. For example, they stressed on Sailormoon&#8217;s teardrop, which we would realize eventually that it triggered the revelation of the Moon Princess.  Since this cartoon is targeted at children, the language is kept very simple. More often than not, the characters&#8217; expressions are exaggerated to put across the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">intended message</span>.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">Having said all that, you would realize that I have used the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">power of language </span>to animately describ the scene from the clip. Verbal communication is present in our lives daily, so much so that we often overlook it. The clip used language to give each character a <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">name</span>, so we can define the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">identity</span> of the character and distinguish it from other characters. </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">For example, the name <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Tuxedo Mask</span> suggests that the character might be a hero in the cartoon as his name is powerful and strong. Perhaps, I might have come to this conclusion because I&#8217;ve attached the things he does in the cartoon to his name. This is also a powerful element of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">naming and identity.</span> Also, he often wears a tuxedo and a mask to remain unrecognized. </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">The black cat in the cartoon is called Lunar. According to <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Adler and his colleagues (Adler et al., 1998), </span><span style="font-style:italic;" class="Apple-style-span">the name of a person can influence how we perceive them. </span>This is extremely true. If I were to meet a person called Lunar, I would immediately think of the black cat in Sailormoon. And I would <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">perceive</span> the person based on the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">characteristic</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">s</span> of Lunar. The same can be said of the name Garfield. Everyone knows of the cartoon cat, Garfield, who is a lazy and fat cat. If an employer decides to hire someone called Garfield, who is incidentally on the heavier side of the scale, he would somehow think that this worker is lazy. This is inevitable as the impression of the name Garfield is deeply imprinted in all of our heads.  </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">Language is also important in <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">relationships</span>. In the clip, you would see that in Tuxedo Mask&#8217;s last moments, he used language as a<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;"> tool of communication</span> to tell Sailormoon his last wishes. Hearing Sailormoon&#8217;s pleas for him to stay alive, he would also realize that she loves him. Even though they communicated for a rather short time, they used language effectively and within that short period of time, they managed to &#8220;tell&#8221; each other how much they liked one another. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Words</span> are something we often take for granted but are very crucial in <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">transmission of messages</span>. Let&#8217;s examine the words Sailormoon used towards Tuxedo Mask. In the clip, she said this: &#8220;No!! Tuxedo Mask!&#8221;, &#8220;Tuxedo Mask, no, please don&#8217;t go!&#8221;, &#8220;Dear Darrien&#8221;, &#8220;You can&#8217;t go, you can&#8217;t!&#8221; Without watching the clip, just by examining these words, one would come to a conclusion that whoever is speaking it, cares a lot of the other person. Thus, it is essential to take caution in the words we use as it can affect the message and its meaning.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">In the clip, you would also realize there is an obvious lack of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">slang</span>. In translation of the cartoon, they must have removed some language exclusive to the Japanese community. They did this for a very good reason. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">Slangs </span>are <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">language-based barriers </span>which are mainly meaningful to a particular group and are usually used in informal situations, or when we are speaking to a community of people who understand it and would feel &#8220;closer&#8221; to the conversation because of the slang. During translations, one would usually note that <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">slangs</span> are not translated as it is sometimes impossible to, or because it is not necessary as it does not affect the main message.</div>
<p><!--more-->Here&#8217;s something to think about: Are we using verbal communication <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">effectively</span> in our lives everyday? </p>
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  The above postcards are from www.postsecret.com and &#8221;PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a homemade postcard.&#8221;-text quoted from website.

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<p style="text-align:left;">  The above postcards are from www.postsecret.com and &#8221;PostSecret is an ongoing community art project where people mail in their secrets anonymously on one side of a homemade postcard.&#8221;-text quoted from website.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">I selected these 3 postcards to show the linear model of communication. These postcards show secrets from people, and are published on the PostSecret website. Most people write in to &#8220;say&#8221; something to someone, whom they didn&#8217;t get a chance to, or simply to &#8220;say&#8221; a secret that they need to get out of their chest. Readers like us, are <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">passive targets</span> as <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">receivers</span> of this messages. The <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">senders </span>of this message, in this case the message is the secret, send their messages through a <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">channel</span>, in this case it&#8217;s the postcard, and we, as <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">receivers</span> passively read it but do not respond to it. Even though this is one of the earliest form of communication, it is still very valid today, based on the example I illustrated.   </p>
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<div>To elaborate, let me talk about the first postcard. The <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">sender</span> of the message, let&#8217;s call him/her X for convenience sake, wishes to &#8220;tell&#8221; her dog something. Instead of doing so directly, X writes a postcard, using it as the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">channel/medium, </span>to convey the message. She writes the message, &#8220;<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style:italic;">Everyone says I saved your life. The truth is, you saved mine.</span>&#8221; Conventionally, the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">receiver </span>of the message would be the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">target</span> of the message. However, we, as readers, received the message too. In fact, the targeted receiver is not the receiver. We, as outsiders, are the receivers instead. Knowing that her dog can&#8217;t read, he can&#8217;t be the passive receiver of the message. This is a twist to the usual linear model of communication. Hence, it can&#8217;t be said that it is an accurate representation of the model.</div>
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<div>However, the next postcard is a more accurate representation of the model. In the second one, the father of the baby, wishes to tell the public a secret he has kept to himself all these while. He, of course, does not expect a response/reply to his message. So the father, as the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">sender</span>, writes a message, &#8220;<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style:italic;">After my son was born, I secretly wished he would die so I could have my life back. Now I would give my life so he could live. I never knew I could love someone so much.</span>&#8221; He uses the postcard and internet(because PostSecret publishes the postcards it receives on the website weekly) as the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">channel/medium</span> to convey his message to the public, who are the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">passive receivers.</span> This model of communication is illustrated successfully in this example, and shows that the linear model of communication is never too old to be obsolete.</div>
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<div>In the 3rd postcard, the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">sender</span>, perhaps the wife of a soldier, &#8220;hopes&#8221; that her husband will read the message, as he is the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">intended target</span> of the message. She, like the rest of senders, conveys her message, &#8220;<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style:italic;">Sometimes I let it go to message on purpose. I can&#8217;t bear the sadness in your voice. Come home safe,</span>&#8221; through postcard and internet, letting it be the <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight:bold;">medium</span> for transmission. If her husband reads the message and knows it is his wife who sent it to him, he completes the linear model of communication by being the receiver. However, he definitely would respond to it. Hence, the interactive model of communication comes into play here. The linear model of communication is broken as there is feedback. The soldier would decide to call his wife to tell her that he got the message and he loves her. That is a response to the message that she sent him. The linear model of communication is insufficient to describe this form of communication as the receiver is no longer passive. It is also important to take note of the <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">noise</span> that would be present in the communication. The soldier might have been in Iraq fighting a war, and reception would definitely not be very good. So he calls his wife, hoping to say something romantic. But, because of poor network, he keeps getting cut off and sometimes his voice becomes muffled. His wife hears what he&#8217;s saying, but not in the way he intended it to be. Instead of it being romantic, it ends up being frustrating because half of the time, she can&#8217;t hear him. <span style="font-weight:bold;" class="Apple-style-span">Noise</span> is an extremely important element here as it changes the message altogether. </div>
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<div>Here&#8217;s something to think about: If the receiver is not the intended receiver, can the communication still fit into the model? </div>
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